A Nutty Mom

Many parents are not quite ready to shift their thinking required to make to direct their children on a path filled with good behavior. Parents often take a “do as I say, not as I do” motto and was surprised when kids do not listen to them but prefer to copy their actions instead. Many parents do not realize how much they actually communicate with their kids and maybe make some mistakes that can be easily repaired.

How do parents go about teaching their children good manners? You may not want to hear it, but it must begin with you. Your actions, emotions and expressions are what your children see and that’s what they are more likely to follow. social skills and their behavior is a direct reflection of you.

So, basically what the point is this: how you think and act should be changed to reflect how you want your child to behave. It’s hard to swallow the pill for some, but the changes will make your job as parents easier and more successful. Stepping into the role of leader in parent / child relationship can be made smoothly after you’ve learned some basic skills of leadership.

Learning to use new communication methods that may be unfamiliar to you may sound scary at first, but luckily your child does not know the difference. They will learn right along with you. You have the love and admiration for your child, and they will not fault you if you make mistakes sometimes. These skills are valuable tools that will help you throughout your parenting job.

Would you like to learn how to remove your child out-of-control and challenging behaviors without using punishment, Time-Out, Behavior Plans, or a Gift?